Problem Solving or Creatively Wasting Time

It is easy to come up with ideas for creating new products or services or business processes because we simply think they are great ideas.  But how many of them solve problems that truly need solving?  So many organizations need to look more closely at what they’re already doing and realize the biggest problem they could solve is becoming better at what they already do. 

 Too often we do too many things too quickly to become good at any of them, and before we know it we’re drowning in details and falling behind.  Next thing we know we’re in a rut of mediocrity and can’t figure out why because we’re too busy to stop and think.

Is it possible that in all our creating and developing we failed to recognize the potential we already had that we weren’t taking advantage of?  What if we got a lot better at what we already do to increase our sales?  Would we have been more prepared for the next big thing?  Would we have identified other opportunities that would have been better to pursue than the ones we rushed in to?  All that time we probably thought we were solving problems and becoming great with all our creative ideas.  But couldn’t we argue that we might have just been creatively wasting time?   

My dad always told us “if you’re going to do it (anything), do it right the first time”.  The implication is that if we do it right the first time it won’t have to be re-done.  I really agree with that mentality.  Almost nothing is perfect when first created, but the point is get it right before calling it done and moving on to the next thing. 

Cool Cousins

It breaks my heart to know that I have not-so-distant cousins I would have loved to have known better.  Instead they are all very loose acquaintances and at age 32 it seems too late to try and form any sort of real relationship with them, not to mention awkward. 

I hope my kids don’t have to experience that.  I’m not doing a very good job letting my kids get to know some of their cousins that are 2nd or 3rd cousins.  Is it normal to have relationships with 2nd or 3rd cousins? 

King of the Hill Appreciation

A few weeks ago Perry preached about men being the leader for their family and used an analogy of how it is like playing king of the hill as a kid.  No matter how many times you get knocked down you’ve gotta fight to be the king of the hill.  Your family is depending on you to fight to be the king of the hill, the leader of the family.

The message really spoke to me and helps me keep a good perspective on what it is like succeeding and failing as a husband and father.  Here is an observation I’ve made as I pay closer attention to this in my life.  It’s nice when I succeed but I often feel under-appreciated because it is what is expected of me. The other side of my observation is it really sucks when I screw up because it gets a lot of negative attention.  I end up feeling like I get more negative attention than positive attention because I either screw up way too much or my bad outweighs my good or something.  Or maybe it is just that appreciation thing.  Maybe I’d like to be shown as much appreciation for when I’m getting it right as I am shown negative when I get things wrong (even though getting it right is what is expected of me). 

So I challenge myself – how much appreciation do I show to my family (or everyone for that matter) when they do what I expect of them?  Why should I expect others to appreciate me when I probably need to do a better job showing appreciation too?

Devin Got Baptized – Baptism May 23, 2010 11:15am

How Much Is $700 Billion

I’ve been thinking lately about this $700 Billion that Wall Street is getting. It’s pretty frustrating to think they’re getting all that money and mis-using it already. They’re claiming that they aren’t but you have to imagine at least some of what the media is reporting is true. Billions of dollars are still going to be paid in bonuses to the employees of companies who are receiving federal aid – yeah ‘B’ for Billions. In fact, some companies’ employees are excited that they’re getting more bonus this year becuase the company had to cut employees but it’s still paying the same lump in bonuses, and since there are less people to divide it up each person is getting more. That’s ridiculous!

It can be argued that we all brought this on because our entire culture is spoiled and lives above our means etc etc – TRUE! But the Wall St. and Capital Hill people are just as guilty for pushing this downstream, and they’re putting us on the hook to fix it with our tax money. I have mixed feelings about this. On the one hand I don’t want the big dogs to fail and finish tanking our economy, but at the same time I don’t want them doing whatever the hell they want with all that money. I’ve wondered – what if they just divide all that money among taxpayers and let them use it to catch up their debt? There would inevitably be a bunch of idiots that would go buy a big screen TV instead of make their house payment. But how is that any different than these big companies planning to pay fat bonuses at the end of the year. They can say the bailout money isn’t being used for bonuses but that’s no different than the citizen saying they need government money to make their house payment but they’re not using the money to buy the big screen TV on their Christmas list. How stupid does it get? Our government is once again dropping the ball.

All this thinking has me wondering – just how much is $700 Billion? I have 3 kids who are going to have to help pay this off and it isn’t their fault. I’ll take some fault for the current situation – I’ve lived beyond my means in the past, and I’m willing to make up for it. I can’t fix the whole problem myself but I’m willing to do my part (everyone’s gonna have to anyway). How long do you think it would take to pay off the $700 Billion if we all shared the responsibility equally? I’m talking about everyone who lives in our economy.

If my calculations are correct – if 300 million of us dug deep and sacrificed hard for just 4 years we could completely pay off the $700 Billion. All it would take is money we’re already wasting probably every day or no doubt over the course of a week, or at the very least every month – even for the ‘poor’ folks. I’m talking skipping one small-size value meal at McDonalds per month, or just skipping the value-size upgrade a couple of times a month. If 300 million of us would just commit to paying $5 per month for 4 years that would be a little more than $700 Billion. I’d be willing to pay my 4 yrs worth right now if I knew it would be handled right to fix the problem. You know what – go ahead and sign me up for $25 per month on that plan. I beleive a lot of folks would sign up with me if we could go ahead and clear everybody’s credit card debt too.

BUT (that’s right – I have more conditions) – I want to see a stop to the over-spending that got us here in the first place. Everybody who gets a penny of debt relief doesn’t qualify for any credit cards for the next five years. Fair enough? I’ll include myself in that group because WHEN I LEARNED MY LESSON ABOUT THIS I STOPPED USING CREDIT!!! I haven’t had any new credit in 5 years. Living within our means – imagine that. But like I said – I have failed in the past so I’m willing to help make it up – even more so than most – because my children deserve it. 

Time Budgeting

I don’t normally care much about the interviews Tony Morgan has on his site, but this one is applicable to everyone. I’ve written a lot about budgeting money, the Joe Sangl ministry, and living within means. But I haven’t put enough thought or effort in to budgeting TIME. The last sentence of the interview ends with ‘live within the budget’. I’ve learned to do that with money but I need to learn to do that with time. 

More on Finances & Relationships

I track a few blogs, scim them mostly, but read the ones that grab my attention. Check out the following in this order – good stuff:

Marriage & Money – Can Love Overcome Financial Incompatibility
The answer is NO by the way – they’re not compatible – it’s obvious. They’ll have to CHOOSE to become compatible or they will split – guarantee it. Love is a CHOICE – in all areas of the relationship. They’re gonna have to get together and be realistic.

Marriage & Money – Allowances for Adults
I like this one because Shawna and I need to do this. We usually do a pretty good job agreeing on what discretionary spending we’re gonna do, but it might be better to make it an official allowance, or ‘blow money’ as Joe Sangl calls it. We don’t normally do ‘blow money’ on the budget because the way we’ve been doing it is to reward being under budget by using some of the left over for pleasure.

This blog was linked in one of the posts linked above and it caught my interest. I’m going to add it to my feeds at least long enough to see if I like it. 

Dalton Bombing

Many of you probably already heard about the bombing in Dalton, GA (where my parents and siblings live). If not, here’s a news snippet:

What you probably don’t know is my brother was among the first firefighters allowed in the place. I won’t go in to all the details as he told it, but I will share a pic – Matt is the one to the far right – that’s his buddy AJ in the flourescent vest and gym shorts. AJ obviously manned the truck gadgets on the safe end of the hose rather than going into the flames in that attire. We’re proud of these guys for the job they do.

Here’s a link to more pics of the scene:

http://www.flickr.com/photos/cmcconkey/sets/72157608123581467/

Many prayers for the people and families affected by this tragedy.

Catalyst 2008

Last week I had the opportunity to go to this conference. It was excellent – there is no other word for it. Here are some quick highlights:
  • The biggest floam ball you’ve ever seen. 12,000 people were there, everyone had a piece of floam. Put them all together and it had to be the largest ball of floam ever formed.
  • One of the MC’s, Lanny Donoho, was crazy. At different times throughout the event he did lots of crazy stuff, including bringing in a pig, a donkey, an elephant, a bus, and he did a hilarious video with Jeff Foxworthy.
  • Jeff Foxworthy was there talking about ministry he’s been a part of – thought that was really cool.
  • They had a group of those guys who do slam dunks off the trampolene and they did high-flying dunks to raise $10,000 for Hoops of Hope

Credit Driven Economy

I don’t understand our economy at all. Why in the world are we so credit driven? In the midst of our terrible financial crisis I am still receiving credit offers in the mail. I haven’t opened any new credit in 5 years. We went through a tough time when our credit score became trbl (that’s Charles Barkley for terrible). Our score is just now beginning to get better but shouldn’t we still have big red flags on our history that would prevent lending agencies from being so eager to lend us money that we don’t even want? It makes me worried that the lending and credit problem in our society isn’t going to be fixed despite this $700 billion bailout that is so necessary to get these fools out of trouble and prevent our economy from collapsing.

I have to admit Shawna and I have learned the hard way about getting over our head, but we learned and stopped borrowing. How do I know everyone else has learned and will stop calling the 800 number to get the loan on the mailer they received – KNOWING they can’t afford to pay it??? How do I know our economy won’t be in this same situation or worse in just a few months or years when more debt goes bad and wall street is on the verge of disaster again? God help us through this mess – forgive us for being bad stewards – thank you for providing for our needs – please give us and our legislators wisdom in our financial decisions.